Anyone else go through a series of emotions for no reason?
Today, when I woke up, I was done.
Didn't want to lift a finger. Could easily have spent the day in bed napping and scrolling TikTok. It felt like I'd forgotten to take my anti-depressants, but that wasn't the case, I've taken them every day since Tuesday.
Since my book launched earlier this week, I've been pushing hard on the promotion. I've sent out about forty packages to targeted individuals with presents in telling them about the book, I've been doing lots on social media, and I've contacted four hundred libraries to suggest that they buy the book.
As of yesterday, I was on six sales.
Now, there's so much against me. A new author, selling a book in an unclear genre (not a nice definable one like thriller or romance), a collection of short stories instead of a novel, self-published, without proper marketing, an agent, or big social media presence, has a likelihood of major success of under 1%. Selling a hundred copies has a maximum likelihood of 10%.
And I didn't write the book to be a massive success - although that would be nice, of course, who doesn't want to earn millions from a book they've published and have a mansion with several staff? (especially a gardener.... not a fan of the outdoors lol). I wrote it because I've always wanted to publish a book, and the stories in it I like. Even though I wrote them, they make me laugh.
But still. When I woke up - depression was significant.
That feeling faded when I received a nice email from one of the libraries I'd contacted, saying that it wasn't a fit for their library (being medical in nature), but they was going to suggest it to another library on campus. I chilled on Minecraft for a couple of hours, and felt pretty good after that. And I checked my stats and found I was up to eight sales!
So then this afternoon I went out, and came back, listless and apathetic despite it being spring and there being some actual sunshine around.
And now I'm feeling good - I've had a decent dinner, I've made some more promotional videos, I'm now feeling like I've actually had quite a good day. And I'm on leave tomorrow, so I'm looking forward to that.
Sometimes, with having mental health stuff going on, I forget that it's actually an issue. Some days I'm powering through all sorts of challenges and tasks, and feeling perfectly fine, and I think it's not a thing any more.
And then some days, like today, you have a spell where you feel like everything is wrong, and there's no rhyme or reason behind it.
But now I'm feeling better :) and I'm very lucky to have this platform to vent on (and those who know me well, I am so very happy to have you in my life - I wouldn't be here without numerous people who have helped me and continue to help me)
Finally - If you haven't already.... buy my book! https://amzn.to/3XBVH1z